I
find it amazing that in 2017, women are still having their bodies judged by
society in ways that are similar to how they were just 50 years ago. While there have been strides towards making
positive change, such as celebrity women posting body positive images online, a
lot of young women still suffer from something they have no control over. Take for example an article in The Huffington Post where the author is
sick and tired about cases of high school girls having strict dress codes on
their prom dresses.
One of the most recent cases had
teenage girls being told to not, “wear clothes that would distract male
students and teachers.” It’s disgusting
that a school would even tell their female students something like this because
they are already limited on what they can wear.
Most schools require all females to wear dresses as opposed to suits as
some young women choose to wear. The
dresses also have to be arms length.
This can get tricky when wearing heels as was the issue with another
school where the young lady’s dress went slightly higher when she put on
heels. She had already explained the
situation to the school and they approved her dress but the teacher at the
front door of the prom apparently didn’t get the memo and refused to let her in
at first.
This is a dangerous precedent
because this tells young women that the men around them will not be able to
control themselves and that they’re asking for trouble. Another interesting example is that of the
women who filmed themselves walking around New York City while they were being
catcalled. When posted online, many
comments were directed at what the women were wearing. The first woman was merely wearing all black
wear the only thing that was remotely revealing was her chest. Even still, this did not warrant responses
that were shaming her as she did nothing wrong.
There was nothing wrong with her outfit and she deserved to walk through
the city without hearing degrading comments about her looks.
Odyssey
published an article last year asking the question, “Instead of policing girls
and scorning them for wanting to be comfortable, why are we not questioning and
putting the spotlight on certain boys who lack self-control when they see a
spaghetti strap?” This question
perfectly sums up the issue when it comes to teenage girls who simply want to
dress comfortably rather than conform to an unrealistic dress code, especially
during the warmer months. As the article
progresses, it states something very true in our society and that is women are
taught at a young age that they should not express their sexuality if it does
not fit in with societal standards. This
reminds me of a particular playwright who went against the norm.
Tennessee Williams always wrote his
women as strong, independent and completely unapologetic about their
sexuality. For example, his play, Cat on a Hot Tin Roof features a woman
named Maggie who is constantly trying to seduce her husband Brick and this is
featured on screen by Elizabeth Taylor who is fully able to capture Maggie’s
sexual freedom and her pride in it. When
it came to Tennessee Williams, as director Richard Brooks once put it, “those
women were bursting into a new age. Sex
for them was not a forbidden subject, it was a form of expression.” However, despite the play and movie’s
success, society as a whole has still kept women’s bodies to a virtually
unattainable standard.
When it comes to the world of
modeling or beauty pageants, women undergo many changes to fit the fantasy of
the perfect or ideal woman. But that is
exactly what it is, a fantasy. The
average woman comes in many different shapes and sizes. What beauty pageants essentially do is set
women back. There are exceptions to this
as in recent months; contestants have used their voice to make calls for
social, societal and progressive changes.
This shows the inner beauty they all have, but in the end they are
mostly judged for their bodies.
While I tend not to get into
political arguments, it goes without saying that Fox News has the worst
reputation with their treatment of women.
When we see a female anchor or a panel that has women, they are always
shown with their legs crossed and in very tight outfits. There were even confirmed reports that this
was actually a rule at Fox which means that instead of allowing their female
employees to express only their viewpoint, they have to make sure they get
their viewers staring at their bodies.
To me, it’s a sad and cheap way to garner ratings. Fortunately, there are other news networks
both on TV and online that do not promote that kind of environment which does
give hope to any woman interested in reporting actual news.
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Great Post! The fact that the student had to have her dress approved and was still not allowed entrance to Prom really shows how disgusting the system really is. Young girls are taught to seek approval of their looks and body because of their male counterparts. Where is the accountability for their own actions?
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